By: Kenneth Appiah Bani
Liha Miller, the estranged wife of Ghanaian musician Justice Amoah, popularly known as Patapaa, has broken her silence about her failed marriage, describing it as one of the most painful experiences of her life.
In an emotional interview with blogger Zion Felix, Liha revealed that her eight-month marriage to the One Corner hitmaker was filled with constant misunderstandings, emotional neglect, and toxic behavior that nearly cost her life.
Liha, who was born and raised in Germany by a Turkish family, explained that her family places strong value on marriage before childbirth. According to her, divorce is considered a taboo in her family, which made it difficult for her to walk away despite the challenges she faced.
“I felt very bad because I got married, and it didn’t work out. That’s not what I wished for myself. But I couldn’t stay in a marriage where I was not happy, just to satisfy my family or people who don’t even know me,” she said.
Liha also revealed that she and Patapaa had plans to start a family, but things never worked out. At a point, she began to question whether she was the one unable to conceive.
“I was thinking maybe I have a problem because I was never pregnant. But I believe it was God’s plan maybe he just wasn’t the right one for me,” she explained.
Detailing some of her struggles, Liha disclosed that Patapaa would block her every two days, cutting off communication and leaving her emotionally drained.
“It was really toxic. I don’t know how to explain it. You can’t talk to someone who blocks you all the time. I nearly died in that marriage. At a point, I prayed to God that if I survived a very bad situation I was facing, I would never go back to him,” she emotionally recounted.
Although she refused to disclose the exact incident, Liha stressed that it was life-threatening and convinced her that Patapaa did not care about her well-being.
She admitted that cultural and religious differences also played a huge role in their marital issues. According to her, she tried to adapt to Ghanaian traditions, but the lack of understanding made the relationship harder.
“I was very close with his father, who always tried to mediate between us. Anytime he blocked me, his father would calm him down and make him unblock me. But marriage is between two people, not a third party,” Liha said.
Liha maintained that she did everything possible to save the union, including enduring over three years of silence and distance before finally deciding to walk away.
“I really tried my best. But marriage cannot work if only one person is fighting for it. There are some mistakes you can forgive, but there are others I said no to. That’s when I decided to leave everything in God’s hands,” she concluded.
Patapaa, who rose to fame in 2017, has not publicly responded to Liha’s recent statements. However, her revelations have sparked conversations on social media about the challenges of cross-cultural marriages and the emotional toll of toxic relationships.
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